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Written by GodsGift2Human from the blog Should Virginity testing be banned? on 02 Oct 2007
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Should virginity testing be banned?

“It’s our culture and we will not shun it. The constitution says that the identity of a person is through their culture, so why humiliate us and ours by saying it is wrong for us to practise it? We cannot fold our hands and let other people destroy what projects us as a nation.”says Thembi Sibisi a virgin tester.


The ancient tradition of virginity testing seems to conflict with modern views on individualism and human rights. South African legislation protects individuals and their rights, placing women equal to men. Virginity testing, however, is a private and confidential test to establish whether a woman has previously engaged in sexual conduct. A pure woman stands a greater chance to meet a man, and is accepted in the community for having abstained from any misconduct.



Women, under South African law, have a right though to refuse virginity tests. Refusing this test, however, is often not an option due to the tradition and pressures of the community. A woman who is no longer a virgin brings shame to the family, and is discriminated against by others. Rape and sexual assault occur, and this test discriminates against girls who have been subjected to such sexual incidents. Men are not required to undergo such a test and often get away with indecent behaviour or criminal activities.


Modern views are that children should be taught about sexuality and act responsibly. There are strong views that woman should not be subjected to this test. Virginity testing is seen as old fashioned, and shows that there is little trust in the youth. The question is whether virginity testing should be banned?
(taken frm the Big Question)




7 Comments

dudu-cum-2-jozi!!!
02 Oct 2007 12:10

hey TVSA. i've bin visiting this site for abt 2 months nw nd neva had d guts 2 comment.

 I am Zulu gal from KZN, nw based in big bad Jozi, and I think that ukuhlolwa kwezintombi is both good and bad. Allow me to eleborate.

I believe that it is a good practice because
1) it has been part of the Zulu culture for years. Furthermore it encourages young girls 2 respect their bodies whilst honouring tradition
2)with the HIV/Aids endemic its a good way of frightening our young girls into abstinence.

K, on the other side of the coin it is an out-dated and unhygenic proccess which often violates one's right.
**Having said that I think that virginity testing has lost its relevance to this generation and it will eventually die out.**

GodsGift2Human
03 Oct 2007 04:31

phela wakhuluma nje ntombazane YO m Zulu DDC2J

Candygal
03 Oct 2007 05:42

i recently visited R/bay to umemulo of one of tvsa bloggers and i wished i was still a virgin because if then i would respect my body and get respect from others, this gal had umemulo and she was tested, she is beautiful, intelligent, rich(from what i saw), young and proud. you can see the pride in the eyes of her mother and the man who is about to marry her(btw we have ppl who know ppl here, i never thought i'll meet so many schelbs in one day). the gal has it all and mostly she still has her virginity, we were there and we witnessed it. i was so chocked that in her family and neighbourhood she is the only gal who goes to umhlanga, hey bathong a gal from surbubs to umhlanga. just wanna congratulate her. so for me i will sat it must not be burnt, just imagine the confitence it gives to those gal and the safety from these sexual diseases..

im out, by the way im new but have been reading articles eversince, decided to sign up and comment on this. ciao

Annonymous
03 Oct 2007 05:53

Nice one GG2H, this is a really good article! 
Given the day & age that we live in I'd say that it should be banned coz these kids are marketing themselves to rapists & people with the HI virus that still believe that it can be cured through sleeping with a virgin.  And vele virginity should be something that is sacred and about personal pride and there is no need to feel the need to go to these rituals unless u are doing it out of ur own free will. 

Oh, welcome to TVSA Dudu-cum-2-Jozi - like the name it leaves all my questions about u answered!!!

Cande
03 Oct 2007 06:01

Hello Candygal :(

andi01
03 Oct 2007 06:11

I think virginity testing is good bcoz its a way that shows that we still holding on to our culture, but i strongly believe it shouldnt be used as to say it fights the spread of AIDS, coz dats not true. What I mean is this culture is practiced widely in KZN and according to AIDS statisctics. (http://www.heard.org.za/resources/Stats/WEB%20stats_July04.pdf) from 1994-2004 KZN has been the province with the highest HIV-AIDS rate. now please tell me hows that possible.

GodsGift2Human
29 Oct 2007 11:20

welcume candygal!


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