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The lessons learned...

Written by Tshd21 from the blog A trip 'round Tshd21's mind.. on 13 Mar 2008
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To err is human....right beautiful and handsome people? right!!...

In life...we all make mistakes. Sometimes mistakes humilliating, embarrassing and hurtful. Some possibly leaving very visible scars on our souls. But that is how we learn. Learn to be better individuals, to do better and to make better decisions or choices next time round.

Those mistakes, no matter what the consiquences, are just a few of the many things that make us, shape us and ensure that we know how to deal with bigger things yet to come. A sad reality though...is that we will never live long enough to experience all mistakes one can make under the sun or arm ourselves with enough information to never get hurt or hurt others.

There are some things though, that you can experience just by observing a neighbour, friend, colleague...etc. Whether you know for a fact that you will never make them is a topic for another day. Phela tomorrow remains a mystery....

Anyway.....the point i'm trying to make is that mistakes and learning go hand in hand. By making a mistake, you learn....Learn once again...to do better, react better next time...or avoid the same trauma. That error builds you in a way. Those mistakes, in the long run, becomes experiences and lessons learned.

Sooooooooooo.....
What interesting lesson have you learned so far? These below are just a few of mine...
Here goes:

I have learned that money doesn't necessarily make you happy.....

I have learned that you can have sex with someone even if you don't love them.....

I have learned that there still are good men out there.....

I have learned that losing a loved one is the most painful feeling I have experienced to date...but now know that dwelling on the pain will only delay my healing process. If they pass on, they were not meant to travel the rest of my journey with me....so the justice I can do unto them...and myself...is to let them go...no matter how hard....

I have learned that someone may not love you the same way you love them...but that does not mean they do not love you to the best of their ability....

I have learned that a heart can never stop loving no matter how much hurt it has endured...it's simply too big and generous....

I have also learned that if you are gonna express your opinions mo tvsa, you need to develop a thick skin and take the criticism with a pinch of salt!! LOL....

So, kindly share with us those valuable and naughty lessons learned...

37 Comments

Tshd21
12 Mar 2008 10:13

Okay fabulous bloggas........ this one is dedicated to all those lessons learned...

So go on and share with us...what have you learned?...

Nanana
12 Mar 2008 10:21

The only mistake I made was when I thought I was mistaken but I was not.Tonguetwister

Tshd21
12 Mar 2008 10:31

@ Nanana: So what have you learned...things in general nje??

What up?

Nanana
12 Mar 2008 10:35

I am all good my love,mna I have learnt I love addictive love,

Nanana
12 Mar 2008 10:37

I have learnt that love is the greatest feeling ever,and its ok to have a big heart

Nanana
12 Mar 2008 10:40

that I am an adrenaline junkie and actually get withdrawal symptoms

Toxic
12 Mar 2008 10:44

good one Tshd21-will sleep over it and respond in the morning ne?

Louisa_ptl
12 Mar 2008 10:44

have learned that someone may not love you the same way you love them...but that does not mean they do not love you to the best of their ability....

True dat.....I used to worry when love is not returned......buti tend to realiaze that you cannot love and be loved by everyone.

Cande
12 Mar 2008 10:49

I have learned the HARD WAY not to trust a man. heheheheeh..!

Nanana
12 Mar 2008 10:56

MY QUOTES BASICALLY DESCRIBE MY RESPONESE TO THIS ARTICLE,HERE GOES:
It is a common mistake to consider that the limit of our power of perception is also the limit of all there is to perceive.

"I of mine own self can do nothing, it is the Father that dwelled within me that does all the work."

Whatever the information, whatever our perceptions, we will get what we need to learn in order to do better. That is the universal law.

Nanana
12 Mar 2008 10:58

RESPONSE OOPS SORRY FOR THE GRAMMAR

Tshd21
12 Mar 2008 11:07

@ Cande: I have learned the HARD WAY not to trust a man. heheheheeh..!
Eish...what did he do? Lol

@ Toxic: Will be waiting...

Beyonce
12 Mar 2008 11:10

The font is too small daring, Bee is straining her eyes... will come baq later.

Cande
12 Mar 2008 11:30

Its THEY Tshidi, they are always lying..!

KeleFabulous
13 Mar 2008 09:33

hehehe cande i feel you mara like the song says...i still believe....

tshidi ngwneso this is a tough one. what lessons have i learned the hard way? damn!

i've learnt its really best to wait till you're married to have a child. as wonderful as my baby is and as much as i wouldn' change anything as he is such a blessing and i love him to death, my no.2 will be mare when i am married. phela tshwanetse re tsoge rele i2 bosigo.

i have learnt that when you let go of the person inside of you, your subconscious self, when you let hat person out into the world even thou that person might just be a little toomuch, it is the best thing you can do for yourself and the world! i am loving miss fabulous right now!

i have learnt that sometimes when you want something i\n life it is not meant for you to have it and you must just accept it and live a better stress free life of trying to get what you're not gonna get

that's all for now!

Toxic
13 Mar 2008 09:37

Toxic
13 Mar 2008 09:46

i've learnt its really best to wait till you're married to have a child.

Yep!!!!!!!!!! Yep!!!!!!!!!!!! Yep!!!!!!!!!!!!! i shoula listened to my mother when i was told "no sex before marriage!"

Tshd21
13 Mar 2008 09:50

@ Tox: i have learnt that when he cheats it is about me. ....

Excuse me?? You surely wanted to say it is NOT right? If not, kindly elaborate....:)

@ Kelefab: i am loving miss fabulous right now!...

I'm loving that line!!!

cnhlanhla
13 Mar 2008 12:44

i have learnt to take responsibilities of everything i do.

i have learnt to talk to my God on a different note i.e. to just be thankful for everything he's done for me and trust that he's got bigger plans for me then i have .

i have learnt that to know the limit of possible is by going beyond the possible.

I have learnt to never go bitter or discouraged when challenges come my way.

azHOT
14 Mar 2008 02:07

font!

Vutmi
14 Mar 2008 02:19

@tshidi...looks intresting, but i have to go get my reading glasses first! i'll be right back...

Username
14 Mar 2008 02:23

I have learnt that fighting for something and getting is much easier than to maintain it.

You must learn to crawl before you can walk

The person you think you know best may not even know anything about themselves.

You can never genuinely love another person if you do not love yourself.

It’s easier to see someone else’s mistakes but harder to see yours.

Every conversation you have can give you valuable life lessons.

azHOT
14 Mar 2008 02:34

I have learnt that life does not revolve around me.
i have learnt that when he cheats it is about me.
I have learnt that pretence can and should be used as a weapon against his mother-kill her with "love"

same here Tox!!!

Username...have you been teaching me these lessons learned?.............LOL

You must learn to crawl before you can walk

The person you think you know best may not even know anything about themselves.

It’s easier to see someone else’s mistakes but harder to see yours.

Le Good Gal
14 Mar 2008 02:36

It’s easier to see someone else’s mistakes but harder to see yours.
Very tru....I always do that.
I have learned taht the tvsa family is one crazy and valuable family.
I have learned that I dont need a man to be sucessful in life.

Le Good Gal
14 Mar 2008 02:37

SP: Taht> that

Vutmi
14 Mar 2008 02:40

okay i am back.....
I've learned that...

- i am beautiful and special nomatter what anyboy else thinks
- i dont have to take every isht dished out at me
- its okay to cry
- noone can make my life miserable without my consent
- i have a right to be what i am
- there are plenty of men out there, i dont need to hang around with a looser.
- laughter is teh best medicine
- the best friend i can ever have, is my sister (blood is thicker than water)
- i cant dwell in the past...today and tommorow is all that matters.
- TVSA rocks and it will get me in so much trouble.

belz
17 Mar 2008 02:17

I have learnt that talking is the best thing, we wouldn't have a lot of suicide cases if people tried to talk about anything.

I have learnt that crying is ok

there are plenty of men out there, i dont need to hang around with a looser> too true!!

carino
17 Mar 2008 02:39

I have learnt that life is a constant fight.

Segololo
17 Mar 2008 02:47

my biggest regret and mistake was staying a horrible 7 months in a very abusive relationship that still haunts me till now. My advise is if you can see that it doesn't look right at the start, don't pursue it! Life is trying to tell you - dont!

poshspice
17 Mar 2008 02:51

I have learnt not to trust FEMALE FRIENDS.Yoh girls we can be ama menemene

poshspice
17 Mar 2008 02:53

segololo my biggest regret and mistake was staying a horrible 7 months in a very abusive relationship that still haunts me till now. My advise is if you can see that it doesn't look right at the start, don't pursue it! Life is trying to tell you - dont!

echoed -it never gets better but worse

Tshd21
17 Mar 2008 06:30

I sincerely apologise for the small font guys...hope it's okay now...

Sdakamiswa
18 Mar 2008 00:22

babes nice article as always.......

2 lessons......

life will come to an end, we all dont know how & when, all we have to do is live, make mistakes, learn from mistakes & have no regrets....

It is okay for a man to show emotions & it is okay to cry....

joy
20 Mar 2008 04:43

Hi all! Gr8 article tshd21!

LOVE: i was in a relationship where i loved the person and the love returned was insufficient! so i took back my love and invested in kum, back 2me! thats the best thng u can do 4urself and spread love 2 those who giv it 2 u in the same amount!

I have also learned that if you are gonna express your opinions mo tvsa, you need to develop a thick skin and take the criticism with a pinch of salt!! LOL....

Indeed! anyway anything u read on tvsa, take it with a 10kg bag of Cerebos sea salt!! yhu, tvsa builds a thick skin whether u like or not (ngenkani), lol! but thers stil no place like this!

Happy Easter!

Tshd21
12 Feb 2009 17:30

I have learned that people who want to be in your life, will be in your life, irrespective of your flaws....

I have learned that it takes two people to put a relationship together. If the other party is not willing to do their part, you can't force them...

I have learned that the people you least expect will often believe in you and your abilities...

Best-Achiever
12 Feb 2009 21:21

I have learned that even thought my employer will not pay me for working until thiis time ... i must just work for my own sanity and satisfaction after all not everything is about money.

i have learned im better off working that spending hours crying for missing someone .... and i have learned that it doesnt matter even if i can speak with them for an hours, hearing their voice doesnt take the pain of missing them away but worsen it.

eish let me sink on my work

Lady D
12 Feb 2009 22:07

Great article gal

I have learned so much:i have learned that I am the master of my own destiantion

I have learned that i cant make someone happy if im not happy

I cant expect someone else to love me if i dont love me enough

I am responsible for my own happiness and dont have to depend on someone else to keep me happy

That friendship is defined in many ways

That PREVENTION IS REALY BETTER THAN CURE,some deseases dont have cure!!!!!!!!!!!

That its ok to be selfish

That being alone does not necessarily mean that you are lonely

That friends are extremely important in ones life

That money isnt everything but without money life sucks

Above all:I have learned that its ok to mogwanti if otswa Pitori.LOL

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