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My name on your body...

Written by Tshd21 from the blog A trip 'round Tshd21's mind.. on 03 Apr 2008
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It all started when my gals and I decided to go on a window-shopping spree broke that I was left with a very big question mark. I came across someone's name tattooed on someone's body part. I also spotted a red heart surrounding that tattoo. Okay, the name could have easily been of their child, relative etc. But it sure sent me back to a supposedly forgotten situation...

An ex-boyfriend of mine once proposed that we do the same - tattoo each other's names on our bodies as a sign of the love we had for one another. I looked him straight in the eye and asked what was wrong with declaring each other's undying love every day...verbally, that is....My question was answered by his tantrum, his back and my pride not letting me call him and apologise for my childish behaviour WTF? as my gals suggested/thought. Poor friends thought Mr Tattoo was the best male thing that's ever happened to moi...He was tall, dreadlocked, cute lipped, a charmer of note, bought goodies everytime he rocked up at my room ko tertiary LOL and respected the fact that I was not ready to give it up yet. Needless to say, that was the last time I saw him...

A couple of years down the line, with absolutely no memory of the taste of his juicy lips, I do come across this scenario...His name on my neck (the part he suggested), the one place I later discovered that when licked (and still is going to be licked), sends shivers down my spine. Phela I was still an innocent Kelly Khumalo then, leV, legammane la mmatota. So really...how would I have explained that to my painful "teacher"..I silently asked myself? Well, that's if he wasn't a Mr kiss, fiddle with them boobies, faddle Ms fanny and if she's "ready," jump right in type of brother....I consoled myself.

Either way, questions came rushing through my mind. Phela those things are permanent. What happens when people break up? That brings the phrase I will never forget him/her to a whole different level!!

But then again.......there are people who have done it, are thinking of doing it or will do it in the near future...they just don't know it yet!

Anyway.......fabulous dudes and dudettes...... 

Have u ever found urself with a lover's name tattoed on your body part and are you two still together? 

Assuming you two broke up
1. How did you explain it to your current lover? Or the person who gets to see it!
2.How do you feel everytime u c the name, especially if he/she broke your heart... but it's very visible on that certain body part? 

And If you've never done it
1.Have/are you ever thought of doing it?

Indulge a sista please.....





26 Comments

Tshd21
02 Apr 2008 11:52

Okay super gud people.....what are your thoughts? And if you have a tattoo of an ex-lover...kindly share your much appreciated thoughts.....

Vutmi
02 Apr 2008 12:04

what have here?..mmm...let me read

Vutmi
02 Apr 2008 12:12

As for questions one and two...i have never had a tattoo...only photos with holes (ex-boyfriend's head ) on them

2nd question 1....never in a million years...im still exploring gal...i cant be branded!!!!!!!

mabhebheza
02 Apr 2008 12:13

Nice dear...!! Never in a zillion yrs wil i tattoe sum ones name on my creamyllicous skin tyni thiza...Whether Will Smith of nie...Its abig no No
Reasons being i find it stupid foolish out of all things y the name ? R u goin 4get it then take a peep at where its tattoed and say oh yah by the way its Tim is the name??
2ndly :  Plain dumb,,a blonde kinda thing 2do!!  

Vutmi
02 Apr 2008 12:23

Google pamela anderson, Angelina Jolie,...the list goes on...you will understand that tatooes are no child's play....

monwy
02 Apr 2008 12:30

i think i'd du it. having his name or even his picture in my back but the problem is when we broke up and i have to leave him. al hv to hev it removed kaloku

monwy
02 Apr 2008 12:37

guys can i be out of topic 4 a second.

our creative lecturer asked us to wear 1960s garments and i have no idea of that is. can anyone help tell mi ukuthi ngizogqoka ini? m desperate!

Vutmi
02 Apr 2008 12:45

@monwy...honey find a ball-bottoms pants, your granny's old shirt (put elastic bands on the sleves), big platform shoes and an afro wig. you'll be a hit.

back to the topic...

mabhebheza
02 Apr 2008 12:46

Monwy dear y do th tattoe of sum 1 name or picture on ur body is that luv skat??and dear are u aware that thy dont  usecrayons or koki pens when when doing the tatoes& its not  easly  removable!!

mabhebheza
02 Apr 2008 12:47

perfect vutmi or just pull a mafikizolo look wethu!!
back 2topic...

Vutmi
02 Apr 2008 12:57

thy dont usecrayons or koki pens when when doing the tatoes& its not easly removable!!....hillarious you are mabhebheza....LOL...gud nyt my lovely people...i am going to get some humping of my own....mhwaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
((((((((CYBER GROUP HUG)))))))))))))

Shadow
02 Apr 2008 13:19

A lover's tatoo..Hell No! I just wont be able to bear lookin' at such a tatoo when the relationship goes down the drain. The process of removing tatoo's is even damn expensive....

Bunone
02 Apr 2008 14:08

A biiig NO to the tatoes!!!

Toxic
03 Apr 2008 00:53

My partner and i have similar tatoos-not of each other's names though. Even if we broke up, i wouldn't regret having it done cause i really like it and it says nothing abt our relationship. It's a tatoo that appealed to the 2 of us and we had it done-different parts of the body though.

I would never put anyone's picture on my body-not even my baby cause that's what photo albums are used for!!

andi01
03 Apr 2008 00:55

My religion doesnt allow me that. my principles either. And besides if some1 nos u love them, why do u need 2 prove it over and over. I think we as humans have forgotten the true meaning of love, we do things to please others and loose ourselves in the process. I dont have a problem with people with tatoos (most of ma friends have tatoos), but me over my dead body !!!!!!!!!!!!!!.

andi01
03 Apr 2008 00:56

LOL @ TOXIC "I would never put anyone's picture on my body-not even my baby cause that's what photo albums are used for!!

Toxic
03 Apr 2008 01:04

I think we as humans have forgotten the true meaning of love, we do things to please others and loose ourselves in the process

So so spot on!!!!!!! Andi, you're a pearl of wisdom...

vivacious
03 Apr 2008 03:14

Well I think thats not a clever ding 2 do, i know when people r inlove dey do some CRAZE dings bt having someones name on ur body is not on. We all know when a relationship is still new u have dis idea it'll last 4eva (not dat de is anything wrong  wid a little faith) bt in relationships u must learn to leave dat room 4 dissapointment, that maybe it wont work out. So its safe if we dont ruin our bodies wid something dat cud be a painfull memory and keeps reminding u of da past. Some relationships end up in a messy way so i dont think anyone is willing 2 take da chance of having something dat brings back bad memories.

sjura
03 Apr 2008 03:23

@ VIV in relationships u must learn to leave dat room 4 dissapointment  eish  i have always tried to do that but its just impossible i always give my 101% to every relationship and jst get dissapointed whn the dissapointment cums. if its possible cud u gve me a few tips on how to leave that room.

Tshd21
03 Apr 2008 07:05

@ Andi: I think we as humans have forgotten the true meaning of love, we do things to please others and loose ourselves in the process... 

You are so right....and to think that we last saw each other as boyfie and galfie on that day.....I sometimes wonder how I would have explained the name if I had agreed to do it....

Dimago
10 Apr 2008 06:11

Interesting topic Tshd...

My cousin has a tattoo near her fanny, I asked her why she did it, she said it was suggested by her boyfriend (now ex) and she was doing it because she loves him.  I ofcourse thought she was crazy!!!!  Fortunately for her it was not the guys name but a disguting looking 'angel'....hehehehehe...now she's stuck with that thing...i still cant imagine how she sat the whole time clearly with her legs open while the tatto artist did his thing...ya! things we do for love....

youngtodie
10 Apr 2008 06:16

not  in  million   . Just  an  angel  tatoo  will be great .Atually  i'm  thinking  of  doing it

monchooza
10 Apr 2008 07:07

My Partner and I have done Tatoos of rings on our ring fingers and yes we are now thinking of doing another tatoo together, but thina we dont do names we do symbols on the same spot on our bodies....so mina ngithi there is nothing wrong with it

Tshd21
10 Apr 2008 07:19

But would you ever do a tattoo of your partner's name on your body Moonch?...

Dabs
10 Apr 2008 07:26

I know a couple who did tatoo's on their wedding fingers. They did get married but they are now in a process of divorce. So they are stuck with each others memories everytime they look at their fingers. They have been married for 6 years. It's a very messy divorce so I would not reccommend it.

monchooza
10 Apr 2008 07:48

i dont think i would Tatoo my partners name on my body simply because its long (thats means more money and more pain) and i Love my name more so if my body had to have a name tatoed to it it would be my own name


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