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He is DEAD!

Written by carino from the blog 3 Seconds on 26 Aug 2008
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Ok, I've never cried the way i'm crying right now over somebody that's passed away.. Coz , thing is, death has never robbed me of anyone close...
Well, I've lost an uncle, a distant cousin, a few grandmothers, but never, ever have I lost someone I shared so much with...

I got a phone call about thirty minutes ago... An old friend has passed away. An old friend I've been avoiding for months. An old friend that meant so much back then, an old friend I've shared bottles of Jack Daniels with in the wee hours of a Sunday morning....
A friend I used to hold miscellaneous gigs with back in day... any excuse to get an SAB sponsorship and get sloshed... we'd celebrate almost anything and come up with any kind of theme, just to get free booze and then have afterparty for every afterparty...

Then I became selfish... I cancelled a few people out of my life and I signed a Hermit's Application Form.
I'd make any kind of excuse not to meet up with my old friends, not to dress funny for the J&B Met, not to drink from Thursday to Sunday, just like old times. Not to have fun.

But now he's passed away... He's gone... I ignored his calls and avoided him.. For a very long time.

It never crossed my mind that he might die.

The last time I saw him was about six months ago.

I'm only writing this coz I needed to tell somebody... I needed to tell someone that I regret being selfish...
I can only say this.. sometimes we lose so much in people's lives, we forget to be part of people's lives coz we are too self-centred...We never think they might die and we forget to appreciate them.

My simple words are:
*Appreciate your friends. They might not make you happy everyday but they are in your life for a reason.

*Laugh with them even when you dont really feel like it. At least you'll remember their smile when they are gone, and they'll remember yours.

*Hug them even when there's no particular reason.

*Love them even when they make you pull your hair sometimes.
*Spend time with them even when you don't really feel like it - It's not always about you.

*Build happy memories. You dont want the only thing you remember about your friend to be "Leave me Alone!!!"

137 Comments

carino
26 Aug 2008 06:48

I'm hurt... so hurt..

Toodecent
26 Aug 2008 06:50

Eish..........Be strong Carin. I couldnt even finish reading, God is great and everything happens for a reason.

carino
26 Aug 2008 06:59

yha, hey

Centrepiece
26 Aug 2008 07:05

Carino hang in there, we all have to learn from your ordeal. Sorry for your friend!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Pooky
26 Aug 2008 07:07

oh gal i'm so sorry about your friend hey, my condolences ...and dont beat yourself up like this gal, we all have done things we wish we handt at some point, we all wish we could turn back that clock to right our wrongs , but we cant....feeling guilty wont help and i'm sure naye he woudnt want you to torture yourself like this.....xola sisi wam and embrace the good memories you shared with him.......(((((cyber Hug))))))))))))

Toxic
26 Aug 2008 07:09

Love what u've written at the bottom--the bulleted points.

youngtodie
26 Aug 2008 07:11

i bealive u had some reasons 4 ignoring u're friend ,but even so friendship is the powerful thing. Its ok only God know u oncelove u're friend. my condolences to u're friends family and u.

zowee
26 Aug 2008 07:12

Uzobagrand maan Carino,you will heal with time.Be strong ok.

awelani
26 Aug 2008 07:13

Um really sorry about ur frend Cariri, as tdc sed, be stong gal. :-(

Cande
26 Aug 2008 07:14

Be strong Carino, i know how it feels like to loose someone you close to..
Just cry it out, and stop feeling guilty..then you need to change your life but that didnt mean you didnt love him..am sure he knows that too. May your friend's soul rest in peace..

today i am really NOT okay because it is on this day, last year that i was burrying my father..He might not have been my biological one but he did for me everything that a father could have done for his daughter ...I really miss him everytime i go home, which will be the case this weekend.. may his soul rest in peace..

Firstdvd
26 Aug 2008 07:19

My condolences Carino...I like this one: "SPEND TIME WITH THEM [FRIENDS] EVEN WHEN YOU DON'T REALLY FEEL LIKE IT".

Golden Star
26 Aug 2008 07:28

Carino... If it felt right at the time then it was right. I'm sure you had your reasons for avoiding your friend so don't feel guilty because you never stopped loving him. Be strong sisi if nothing else I'm sure your great sense of humour will get you through this time...

Hlehle
26 Aug 2008 07:30

I'm so sorry Carino. My Condolences to u and his family. Be strong gal.

carino
26 Aug 2008 07:36

Thank you guys... I suppose I cant feel better right away, but thanks for your words.

<<<<i bealive u had some reasons 4 ignoring u're friend >>>
the word is believe, youngtods...but in any case...I really wish I had good selfless reasons.

feeling guilty wont help
The theory says I shouldnt look back, pookzzz, ndiqhonde phambili, but the reality tells me "if only I had..."

Love what u've written at the bottom--the bulleted points.
Thanks, Tox.. and you know they were inspired by you, mos... wink-wink. I'm feeling so bad... I mean, we can come up with a thousand reasons why we dont want to see people... but we never "think what if they die?"

Cande... Im sorry to hear about your not-so-anniversary...

You know, it's his birthday this friday, mine's on the 9th (yes, the day after Farai's, day before TDC's & two days b4 Cnglema's boy's)... and you know right now i'm flooded with all the memories of last year, the year before and 2005's celebration... we had this Virgos' thing... and we werent gon have it this year.. well, i wasn't gon have it with them... Why?? selfishness... thats why...

Thobeka Jeli
26 Aug 2008 07:48

owuuuuu!!!!!!!!!carino idon"t have words but i"m with you true your pain u zoba rite ungakali sisi

Centrepiece
26 Aug 2008 07:52

Pls don't beat yourself so much about this, i'm sure you had to change your life for the better (or worse), which ever case change is necessary!!!

Simmone
26 Aug 2008 07:53

@ Carino,The great thing about remorse is that the likely chance of repeating the same mistake is abridged. Learn from the situation and make sure it doesn’t happen again, your friend would understand.

@Cande, memories thrive in happiness and I am sure your dad wouldn’t expect anything less from you.

WhiteSockGirl
26 Aug 2008 07:56

Sorry to hear that Carino,... strongs,

Toxic
26 Aug 2008 08:14

we can come up with a thousand reasons why we dont want to see people... but we never "think what if they die?"

yeah!! we all assume people will be around for as long as we are-that is until they start gettin seriously ill or smthng. I just called a friend i haven't spoken to in 5 months to say 'hi' !

Nonny
26 Aug 2008 08:33

Qina sisi. I know exactly what u are going through. The same words u used to comfort me, please nawe uziduduze ngawo.

awelani
26 Aug 2008 08:35

YTD<<<<i bealive u had some reasons 4 ignoring u're friend >>>
@Carino: the word is believe, youngtods...but in any case... u will always b Ms Naladi Pandor,lol..

Cande
26 Aug 2008 08:47

YTD<<<<i bealive u had some reasons 4 ignoring u're friend >>>
@Carino: the word is believe, youngtods...but in any case... u will always b Ms Naladi Pandor,lol..

even, when she is in mourning..LOL

shnugy
26 Aug 2008 08:47

Im really sorry for ur loss...I went thru the same situation 4 months ago.Be strong uzoba kahle...time will heal.I know ho u feel like..u just want to turn back the clock and take his calls and hook up again but reality is that he is in a better place now.all u can do is remember him for all the good times u guys shared...il keep u in my prayers

Tshd21
26 Aug 2008 08:49

Askies Carino

Pooky
26 Aug 2008 08:59

bealive u had some reasons 4 ignoring u're friend >>>
@Carino: the word is believe, youngtods...but in any case

ehheheeh even in mourning i-bolpen yakhe ebomvu ihleli isesinqeni...hehehehehe khawubethe Pandondo...uphuma wedwa wena yazi...LOL

Beyonce
26 Aug 2008 09:01

Sorry sis Cariri bathong.

If I knew where you stay bengizokulethela warm-milk to drink and fall asleep, wake up tomorrow and cry some more.

kick-s
26 Aug 2008 09:02

The first day is always the hardest, when you hear the news. I promise you by tomorrow uzawube uthe get to terms with the news. There's not much you can do now. The least you can do is to go to the funeral and pay your last respects. Life goes on girl. Death is part of life. My most humble condolences.

maud
26 Aug 2008 09:09

Sorry SiSi

you just made me to look at my self, and honestly there are friends that i need to spend more time with, especially now that one of my friends is very sick, i pray she get well, i can bare the thought of loosing her not now. dudu shlobo sami
akwehlanga lungehlanga.

Lela
26 Aug 2008 09:10

Sorry wethu Carino, but i'm laughing t the fact that u still manage to be Naledi. Qina sisi va!

Dimago
26 Aug 2008 09:14

Sorry for your loss Carino

JadaPinkett
26 Aug 2008 09:17

Oh Carino...Sometimes I can joke but this time I feel very sorry for you my love... I think we all learnt a lesson to you...anyway just pray and ask God if he may forgive you for avoiding your friend....anyway uzobaright lady!

Shadow
26 Aug 2008 09:17

you just made me to look at my self, and honestly there are friends that i need to spend more time with
Same here. Some people are not even a negative influence in your life, but we somehow tend to keep away from them..for no valid reason.

Hang in there Karin....

Cnglemother
26 Aug 2008 09:17

oh Cariri, sorry i did not see this. Be strong and usule inyembezi, i am not good with comforting words but uqine. Eish ukufa kulisela. cherish the good times u had with him and not feel guilty about the times that u did not avail yourself to him as we cannot turn back the clock.

Toxic
26 Aug 2008 09:28

Mara some friends..........the ones that don't move town; or lose their sim cards and our contact numbers as a result; or always borrow money that we've saved for our couches; or constantly call to say ZIKHIPHANI/SO WHAT CAN YOU TELL ME.....yeah those ones...hmm!

cobiefun
26 Aug 2008 09:33

Carino i know what you are going through because 2 year back the same thing happened to me and the person was my father. We had a dispute and q1I sulked for a week and the very same weekend he passed away and even today i still kick myself , so what i've learnt is that cherish every moment and make it count because u never know when Jesus might call them.

Foxxy
26 Aug 2008 10:03

Deepest condolonces Carino. I also lost a friend last friday. His name is Farai. I got a call on friday morning and i cried so hard but then i went to work and during the day i kept on telling myself there must have been some mistake. Even now i still cant believe it. The worst part is there's no cause of death, he was very healthy, didn't smoke, didn't drink, but he just went to sleep. His 25th was this coming friday(the day we're gonna have his memorial before he goes home to zim). I'm going to the memorial basketball game his team is having for him tonight. Sorry for such a long reply.

Foxxy
26 Aug 2008 10:07

Anyway, what my other friend told me was, while we want our friends to stay with us, at some point God wants them too so he can hang with them.

mabhebheza
26 Aug 2008 10:31

Oh Carino my blocker ...qina mzalwane sorryy skatie !!
Eish u just made me realise sumthing about avoiding friends ...ngindliwa unembeza( guilty conscious)...eish eish eish ..damn the Pride

Nonny
26 Aug 2008 10:36

hahahaha @ Mabhebheza, yekani uku crosser izimpintshi ezifufuzayo zakudala bo..................lol

mabhebheza
26 Aug 2008 10:48

Nonny Buzum uyazi nawe sumtyms izimpitshi zinokuba nescefe ...silethe islow down but u nevr stop thinkin about the gud tyms u shared wit them !

Shud i call ...*thinkin hard*
Eish eish eish ..........................pride is gettin in the way .........but death waits 2no -one ......yhooo wat do i do???

Cody
26 Aug 2008 10:57

Hawu Cariiiii.............sorry about your loss, as you know, we all live on borrowed time, unti God comes to take us home. Qina sisi Qina, kuzolunga!

Snonoza
26 Aug 2008 11:28

Am with you Carino. The same thing happened to me a couple of months ago.
She was a friend of mine from high school...she had lost her parents as a young girl and had a surviving sister who was only three years older than her. She went to varsity and somehow she took the promiscous route. Then she contracted HIV and was bedridden for sometime...She was on ARVs when she got pregnant. I was so angry at her that I closed contact with her. I couldn't understand why she got pregnant so soon after being discharged from hospital.

Four months ago, she gave birth to a boy, came to tell me and I promised to keep in contact. Then her baby died. She never told me about it bt I heard from someone. Still, I wasn't there for her and she died a month later. Now I feel so bad. She was all alone, and a woman from her support group helped organise the funeral. She was buried like a pauper. I can't forgive myself for abandoning her. Now she's gone forever.

Lady D
26 Aug 2008 15:54

I have friend i ignore and i sure know there are those who ignore me,it doesn't make it right but its just natural!!!

Fola sesi!

carino
27 Aug 2008 02:09

Foxxxy, it's the same friend...

cleve
27 Aug 2008 02:16

Wow it's a small world. Guys be strong for your friend. Time will mke it it better but will never make you forget him.

andi01
27 Aug 2008 03:27

@Carino- i am sorry for your loss, but punish yourself not you dear child, for friendship is a two way street, if you were wrong by ignoring him, he was even more wrong by not noticing that and demand re-union. I bet he also thot that, "no we still young we will catch up later", which is how you also felt. So why punish urself, yes you sad that he passed on (which is natural), but be jollier for you had the chance to know him and spend time with him. God decided to separate you 2 for he knew that he was coming to fetch him soon, he knew how hard it was going to be on you had he died in ur arms or 2 minutes after he said goodbye to you. Be sad not you caring little soul, for he is in the better place where he is lookin down on you and testififying infront of them angels that he had met angels on earth (& those angels are still sad that he is gone).
Let not your grief stand in the way, for if he was a true friend to you, "you have many happy memories to remind him by". let you dwell on them and free his soul. for he cant get to heaven, if his soul is still chained by tears on earth. let him fly like a bird, let him grow wings and he will use those to watch over you.

From your Nigga on the West Side

andi01
27 Aug 2008 03:29

you have many happy memories to remind him by- to remember him ka tsona, eish sekgoa!!!!!!!!!! hay hay hay

pariri
27 Aug 2008 03:38

ohhhh carino sisi I'm soooo sorry for ur loss and plz stop feeling guilty I'm sure ur friend can see how much u're hurting right now. Qina mzalwane qina I can't say kuzolunga but u'll get better gal !!! this is soo sad

tha - bang
27 Aug 2008 03:46

im sorry to hear that carino.hope things will get easier with time.will take your advice to heart,we all tend to take life and our loved ones for granted.Its good to be reminded,its a shame it had to be under such circumstances.

mayandie
27 Aug 2008 04:09

This always encourages me when I really feel down & out & please do not blame yourself.....
Let it go ...by T. D. Jakes

There are people who can walk away from you.
And hear me when I tell you this...
When people can walk away from you: let them walk.

I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you,
loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you,
staying attached to you.
I mean hang up the phone…

When people can walk away from you let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you,
you can't make them stay…
Let them go...

And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person,
it just means that their part in the story is over.
And you've got to know when people's
part in your story is over so that you
don't keep trying to raise the dead.

You've got to know when it's dead.
You've got to know when it's over.
Let me tell you something.
I've got the gift of good-bye.
It's the tenth spiritual gift,
I believe in good-bye.

It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful,
and I know whatever God means for me to have
He'll give it to me.
And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it.
Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!!

belz
03 Sep 2008 01:40

SHE IS GONE!!!!!!!!

I work with her, i talk to her more than 10 times a day!!!! she was fine yesterday!!, she was ok, she was up and down the stairs the whole time, she was FINE!!! What happened???????????/ Today she is not at work, she is not amongst the living anymore, how ??? why??? im not going to her offfice because ......... because each time i went there she would say " MaKay!!!! unjani sthandwa sam'" no one will say that anymore!!! Let it go you say, i will, yes i will, but not now, why should i want to let go now? Yesterday at 5pm, she said "itshayile, vele maseyishayile ishayile" today im thinking WTF??? was she on about!!!! ishayile fosho now!!! God please i need you to grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change!!!!!!

carino
03 Sep 2008 02:25

Belzito, its totally difficult to just so maar accept.. you'll need to cry, you'l need to think about the times she was still there, even though its painful, you have to.... omething happened to me last night... I was still crying over my friend, Farai.. and i prayed to God, the same prayer again "God, why now? why did he have to die? Why him?" And i've never heard God speak before and i've always found it difficult to understand people that say he spoke to them wara wara wara he said that he said that....

But yesterday, he spoke to me.... You see, at Farai's memorial service last week, his brother read something he'd found in Farai's things... that he'd written... some poem that ended with the words " so many questions, very few answers"

So, when i was praying last night, that came to my mind and God said to me.... the time might be wrong for us, it might look to wrong to us... and his death might seem untimely... but FOR GOD IT WAS THE RIGHT TIME. You see, He knew us before we were conceived and all, meaning he has a record of everything we will do, including the exact time we will breath our last....

So, when something like this happens, He's not surprised at all.. He knew it, and the fact that he let it happen and no, actually, HE made it happen, it means He knows, still how to comfort us and we will get through the grief.. because, FOR HIM, THE TIME WAS RIGHT...

So, MaKay, sthandwa'sam, find you refuge in the Lord, He's the only one that has all the answers and knowing that he's there looking at you and understanding how you are feeling and knowing how to help,.... it really numbs the pain....

Qina, sisi, at the end of the day, it happened and you only have the memories now, left, so celebrate them...

andi01
03 Sep 2008 02:29

@belz- i am sorry sithandwa sam, thats all i can say at the moment.

andi01
03 Sep 2008 02:32

@Carino- is "so maar"., a new term you just discovered.

Nonny
03 Sep 2008 02:35

God please i need you to grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change!!!!!!
@ Belz - gal, atleast u have already said ur serenity prayer and I know God has heard u. Take ur time in accepting what has happened and may ur friend's soul rest in peace!

carino
03 Sep 2008 02:38

Andile, phuma phezu kwam, sisi...

Pooky
03 Sep 2008 02:48

Belzito uxolo sthandwa sami for your loss...Qina love wami

belz
03 Sep 2008 02:54

So, MaKay, sthandwa'sam, find you refuge in the Lord,> thanks carino (tears just welled up in my eyes when i read that phrase), its getting better coz everyone at work is talking and crying about it, so im sure ngizobaright, i think im just scared more than anything else. Kuninonke guys engike nganijwayela kabi, sorry!! dont hold grudges, Life is sooo bloody short!!!!!! Peace and much love!!!!

Nonny
03 Sep 2008 02:55

Andile, phuma phezu kwam, sisi...
hahahah kumnandi when u do it to us kodwa ne Cariri???? *eish kodwa nawe Andi01 ngathi u are on "mission embarrass our TVSA teacher"

andi01
03 Sep 2008 02:55

@Carino- i am sorry if I offended you in any way. I was only joking. Sometimes when we are in pain, and no words can heal us, i beleieve that a little laughter might help us release some of that pain. Once again I apologise

Nonny
03 Sep 2008 02:57

Kuninonke guys engike nganijwayela kabi, sorry!! dont hold grudges, Life is sooo bloody short!!!!!! Peace and much love!!!!
WOW hey, it's amazing to see that ukugugquka komuntu yinto eyiwubala kanjani.....LOL *sorry Belz, but ke nawe uyazi chomza, kuyahlekwa noma kufiwe*...LOL

carino
03 Sep 2008 03:04

Ewe, andile...nigga..since izolo uhleli phezu kwekhanda lami... and uyalibala ukuthi this is my blog.. kukwami lana... kukhala esami sizathulo...

abantu bayasweleka.. kuyafiwa wena you are still making enemies...

nigga...dont so maar come with your voet voet nonsense.. Have a Lunch Bar...

andi01
03 Sep 2008 03:04

@Belz-Kuninonke guys engike nganijwayela kabi, sorry!! dont hold grudges, Life is sooo bloody short!!!!!! Peace and much love!!!!- dont worry sisi, u jwayeling us is one of the things we love about you. But dont be pessimistic "when u say life is short, as if there is something longer than life". Life isnt short, but its so flippin gr8 that when the time for us to leave comes, we never ready, no matter how old one is.

andi01
03 Sep 2008 03:08

Iam sorry Carino, i never meant to hurt you-hu, I never meant to make you cry. I was just playin

andi01
03 Sep 2008 03:14

@ Belz

U wish that c cud touch her now
U wish that u could hold her now
U wish that u could talk to her, & be with her somehow

U no she is in a better place
Even though u cant c her face
U know she is smilin down on you
Saying "MaKay!!!! unjani sthandwa sam"

andi01
03 Sep 2008 03:15

@ Nonny

Whazuuupppp mu crazy nigga-ress

Nonny
03 Sep 2008 03:33

Whazuuupppp mu crazy nigga-ress
@ Andi01 - Nigga I'm cool. keep on bugging Carino, I like it yazi.

belz
03 Sep 2008 03:34

Andi01, thanks nigga, but pliz leave my nigga carino alone. Nons, yah khona kuyahlekwa sihlobo, im feeling better uyazi.

andi01
03 Sep 2008 03:37

@Nonny says; Nigga I'm cool. keep on bugging Carino, I like it yazi and
@bezl says: but pliz leave my nigga carino alone

Eish bana, I am caught between the rock and a hard place, what can i do, the thing is I love Carino to death and my teasing her is part of love

Ms. Jay
03 Sep 2008 03:40

@ Belz and Cari...so sorry for your loss, be strong and hold on tight. Imagine their death as a birth in heaven. Heaven just got 2 more precious people. Its difficult for us to accept death and if you need to cry...wail your eyes out until your head hurts. It helps

carino
03 Sep 2008 03:41

♫Jesus! take the wheel...♫

Pooky
03 Sep 2008 03:42

its getting better coz everyone at work is talking and crying about it, so im sure ngizobaright....

...and uzobaright indeed Belzito ngoba uyazi mos that "THIS TOO SHALL PASS

This too shall pass - Yolanda Adams
In the middle of the turbulence surrounding you
These trying times that are so hard to endure
In the middle of what seems to be your darkest hour
Hold fast your heart and be assured

[CHORUS:]
This too shall pass
Like every night that's come before it
He'll never give you more than you can bear
This too shall pass
So in this thought be comforted
It's in His Hands
This too shall pass

The Father knows the tears you cry before they fall
He feels your pain, His heart and yours are one
The Father knows that sorrow's heavy chains are strong
But with His strength, you'll overcome

[REPEAT CHORUS]

So set your eyes upon the mountain
And lift your hands up to the sky
And let His arms of love surround you
And take you to the other side

Nonny
03 Sep 2008 03:48

Siyabonga ngomculo wakho Pooky wenduduzo, we forgive for singing off key as well......LOL

JadaPinkett
03 Sep 2008 03:51

I think Carino usubheter ngoku ... About the funeral, can I come with nigga?

myname
03 Sep 2008 03:52

Shame sorini Nomcarino & Nombelz.....Xolani mablockers amahle. Death is such a thief guys & everybudy unomhla wakhe. That's why we have to love unconditionally.....Everything is gonna b ok

andi01
03 Sep 2008 03:59

@ Pooky (the main character) and Myname (is the house), molweni bethunana kunini ndinikhumbula. Yoh I am so overwhelmed with excitosis I dont even know what to say. Its good to have you guys here. Nonny dont be jelouze, bulisa abanye abantwana.

andi01
03 Sep 2008 04:03

@JadaPinkett- mholo mfazi ka Will Smith, utsho ngobufutshane, ingabe mhlazimbe ukwanguye uNokulunga???

Nonny
03 Sep 2008 04:03

Nonny dont be jelouze, bulisa abanye abantwana.
hahahah @ Andi01 - OK OK, injani i-house(Myname) ne sterring (Pooky)?

andi01
03 Sep 2008 04:05

Yhee ninani, can someone remind me of the name of that guy, who was a satanist but reformed, he wrote a 3hour long article and paste it on the web. i just want to read it, please bethunana, ndiyanibongoza, bana bakithi.

belz
03 Sep 2008 04:06

Pooky: waze wacula kamnandi mhlobo!!! awusho futhi "♫ He'll neva give you more than you can bear, this too shall pass♫ ngisho nam' ngivuma nge altor.

andi01
03 Sep 2008 04:06

LOL @ sterring, Pooky the sterring, sounds Steven Segal-like. or is it Chuck Norris-like

andi01
03 Sep 2008 04:08

@Belz- I usually say to my friends who complain about how bad Castle lager taste. "if it dosent kill you my friend, it makes you stronger". (now tell me if you have ever seen a drunk person afraid of anything)

Thesh
03 Sep 2008 04:12

@ Andi its Emanuel Neli, I suggest if you have earphones to listen to him rather than reading, its to long to be read

Pooky
03 Sep 2008 04:13

♫♫abantu bonomona
abantu banomona♫♫

unomona nge velvet voice yami Nonny
iyuh awasikhumshela Andile nge excitosis tl tl tl ...its good to be here daawwgg(sterring)missed you too galz

odie
03 Sep 2008 04:14

@ Andi your friends must be happy to have someonelike you.
Belz - may her soul rest in peace. hope you told her you appreciate her in you life whilst she was around.

carino
03 Sep 2008 04:15

Hellloooo Pookzzz... dancing nami with excitosis just the way that other girl, i forgot her name.. that used to jive for Nonny...

I know kewena Nompukhuzela... you always have my back... even if the whole wide world..(Andi01) can turn against me, you'll be here with me, wena... I love you unconditionally just like esitsho indlu ye gama lakhe(myname)..

JadaPinkett- mholo mfazi ka Will Smith, utsho ngobufutshane, ingabe mhlazimbe ukwanguye uNokulunga??? Tik-oloshe...

Pooky
03 Sep 2008 04:22

Hayini people ndicela ukubuza mabethunani, ngubani kengoku u-Nompukuzela???

carino
03 Sep 2008 04:24

Keketso I hope you have copied that Power of Darkness thing and pasted it on your google bar, already... because im now gon delete those replies... I cant be having some Occult responses on my Godly article...

belz
03 Sep 2008 04:26

hope you told her you appreciate her in you life whilst she was around. > not really hey odie, but she knew ukuthi i digged her or dug her like that!!

andi01
03 Sep 2008 04:28

@ Carino-even if the whole wide world..(Andi01) can turn against me, you know what they say about keeping your enemies closer. baby I love you like a fat kid loves cakes, akere leona oatseba

Nonny
03 Sep 2008 04:29

"Hayini people ndicela ukubuza mabethunani, ngubani kengoku u-Nompukuzela???"
It's u, my darling Pooky, u know TVSA is good at giving people amagama....LOL

JadaPinkett
03 Sep 2008 04:30

@ Carino na Andi01 yini manje come on, Don't be so hard at me.

Ya I agree with you Andio ngimfishane but My husband loves even though I'm short than him pho mude yini uhubby wami but ngeke umtshele lutho ngami shame!

andi01
03 Sep 2008 04:31

@Odie-hope you told her you appreciate her in you life whilst she was around- this is unfair, u cant tell me you have told everyone close to you you love them before you died. SHe knew that belz loves her. Belz never told me that she loves me, but I know she does, its one of this things that you just know. And belz just so you know the feelign is mutual. Ngikuthanda njeba ngizthanda.

andi01
03 Sep 2008 04:33

@jadaPinkett-My husband loves even though I'm short than him pho mude yini uhubby wami but ngeke umtshele lutho ngami shame!- uwathanda kabi amadoda

Pooky
03 Sep 2008 04:35

xolo Naledi for pasting that dark thingy thing on your Godly article...
Je suis désoléePandondo

andi01
03 Sep 2008 04:35

In life somethings are just unbelievable, the only thing we can do is accept them. Like I never believe gore Mzwakhe Mbuli, my mentor could rob a bank. I still think he is innocent.

andi01
03 Sep 2008 04:36

In life somethings are just unbelievable, the only thing we can do is accept them. Like I never believe gore Mzwakhe Mbuli, my mentor could rob a bank. I still think he is innocent.

Nonny
03 Sep 2008 04:38

-My husband loves even though I'm short than him pho mude yini uhubby wami but ngeke umtshele lutho ngami shame!-
That's the spirit Jada, and vele khona la enihlangana khona where it matters the most vele *wink wink*

Pooky
03 Sep 2008 04:41

oh hayi ndivile ke Nonntyatyambo...enkosi

andi01
03 Sep 2008 04:42

praising in my best Mzwakhe Mbuli's poetic voice

Don’t fight back I have a gun
Fight back I have a gun
Back I have a gun
I have a gun
Have a gun
A gun
Gun

This Gun is big
This gun is huge
This gun is powerful
This gun is loaded

I got this gun from Winnie Madikizela Mandela
She sent his daughter to fetch it, Zenani Mandela
She took so long, so we asked Zinzi Mandela
But we hid this gun from Nelson Mandela

It’s the same gun used by uMkhonto wesizwe
To free us from the chains that we forever in
Tis the same gun the killers used to kill our brothers
The gun that our future president will be asking for (awlethu mshini wa……..)

Don’t you think by this time the , the cops could have arreseted him, somethings are just unbelievable.

Nonny
03 Sep 2008 04:42

Like I never believe gore Mzwakhe Mbuli, my mentor could rob a bank. I still think he is innocent.
@ Andi01, hahahahhaah, Nigga puhhhleeeezzzz tell me ui are joking, Mzwakhe is isighebengu sakudala, u can just tell from that "delakufa" face he has got.....LOL

awelani
03 Sep 2008 04:46

Um so sorry Belzito, u will be fyn girlie..... (((((((cyber hug))))))))))), now wipe off those tears and go fix ur make up, starting 2 look lyk a halloween freak..

Y'all old bags aka Nigazzz (u know who u r) are just crazy,,,cant stop lafing @ ur replies.....missd u so much my subjects, lol.

Nonny
03 Sep 2008 04:46

Tis the same gun the killers used to kill our brothers
The gun that our future president will be asking for (awlethu mshini wa……..)
hahahaha Andile u really like Mzwakhe ne?

Nonny
03 Sep 2008 04:50

Y'all old bags aka Nigazzz (u know who u r) are just crazy,,,cant stop lafing @ ur replies.....missd u so much my subjects, lol.
@ Awelani - LMAO.....where were u izolo gal? Izolo u were counted kwamagama angcwele ase TVSA kwasho ukuthi awukho *hint hint*........LOL

belz
03 Sep 2008 04:51

LOL!!! andiswa!!! yah man ngiyanithanda nonke guys noMzwakhe uqobo lwakhe.

awelani
03 Sep 2008 04:51

LOL @ the renaming of blockers, (Nonntyatyambo, house(Myname), sterring (Pooky), Naladi Pandor,Nomcarino, Nombelz, Nompukuzela)

awelani
03 Sep 2008 04:53

Nony, u thini naa?? what am I now a ghost??

Simmone
03 Sep 2008 04:53

Back I have a gun
I have a gun
Have a gun
A gun
Gun

Andi01 blogger of the decade. ROFLMAO. usile mntanandini!!!!!

u can just tell from that "delakufa" face he has got.....LOL. A nice way of telling him ungu mubiza.....umfana ka mbi-mbi

carino
03 Sep 2008 04:56

eish Keketso... uphuma wedwa wena, yazi.... ROFLMAOTIPAL
...
awulethumshini wakhe mhlaba siyanicela
He needs to eliminate the eliminatables
The eliminatables that are forever looking down on himu..
Looking down on him making ome indigistable comments...
Comments that he will rot in jail and will never rule the country
The country
The country
The country

Give him his gun, our president needs his gun
The gun...
the gun.....
the gun....
the gun...

Nonny
03 Sep 2008 04:57

Nony, u thini naa?? what am I now a ghost??
Eish man Awelani, u can be so slow at times, neway asidlule lapho.

Simmone, yazi I am LMAO imagining uMzawkwe ethi: "A gun, a gun.....a gun"....u know the way he likes to repeat into 3 times with his voice getting softer & softer...LOL

andi01
03 Sep 2008 04:57

@Nonny-Nigga puhhhleeeezzzz tell me ui are joking, Mzwakhe is isighebengu sakudala, u can just tell from that "delakufa" face he has got. ROTFLMAOL

(In my best Mzwakhe's voice)

Those who hate me are jelouze
Those who judge me by my physical appearance are ignorant
Those who judge me for robbing a bank are racist

@Belz-yah man ngiyanithanda nonke guys noMzwakhe uqobo lwakhe. we have so much in common, if we were a maths equation, it would be easy to solve us

@ Awelani- thatha main character thatha, its nice to have you bag, old bag (bhaka omdala)

JadaPinkett
03 Sep 2008 05:00

"uwathanda kabi amadoda"...Point of correction Andio1 (uyithanda kabi indoda) don't u think this sound better.

Carino you calling me Tik-oloshe Ha ha ha...That's funny

Pooky
03 Sep 2008 05:01

laughter really is the best medicine yazi, mission accompished guys uBelz is LOLing again...

andi01
03 Sep 2008 05:04

@ Carino, your version is priceless, ROTFLMBAOL

First they sent me to jail, now him
Is it bcoz we zulu or is it bcoz they fear us
That fear is causing all this consipacy
Neither conspiracy no jail can get us down
Get us down
Us down
Down

Coz u cant keep a good man down
Neither can u keep a zulu man down
For we are the descendants of Shaka Zulu
Now stop with the nonsense, and bring him his
Machine gun
Gun
Yes, the Gun

Pooky
03 Sep 2008 05:05

meant accomplished............before Pandondo comes running with her red pen

awelani
03 Sep 2008 05:08

Eish man Awelani, u can be so slow at times, neway asidlule lapho...Nongoloza, u cant do dat, i want 2 know kuthiweni ngami, okay then, give me the blog name then,

thatha main character thatha, its nice to have you bag, old bag (bhaka omdala)....Sup my Dawd?? Woof Woof!!!

belz
03 Sep 2008 05:08

The country
The country
The country

The gun...
the gun.....
the gun....
the gun...

hahahahahha, im finished, Mzwakhe day on tvsa!
tvsa
tvsa
tvsa

zolx
03 Sep 2008 05:09

Back I have a gun
I have a gun
Have a gun
A gun
Gun
un
..n

ja that's the Mzwakhe we like

Nonny
03 Sep 2008 05:09

Those who hate me are jelouze
Those who judge me by my physical appearance are ignorant
Those who judge me for robbing a bank are racist
hahahahhaaah Andi01, u are killing me, did Mzwakhe really say this or are u just entertaining us?

Machine gun
Gun
Yes, the Gun
Get us down
Us down
Down
ROTFLMFBAO.....this is the repetition I am talking about...

awelani
03 Sep 2008 05:11

First they sent me to jail, now him
Is it bcoz we zulu or is it bcoz they fear us
That fear is causing all this consipacy
Neither conspiracy no jail can get us down
Get us down
Us down
Down
own
wn
n

Coz u cant keep a good man down
Neither can u keep a zulu man down
For we are the descendants of Shaka Zulu
Now stop with the nonsense, and bring him his
Machine gun
Gun
Yes, the Gun
the Gun
Gun
un
n

Nonny
03 Sep 2008 05:12

Nongoloza, u cant do dat, i want 2 know kuthiweni ngami, okay then, give me the blog name then,
VENDA BOYS is the blog title, we had a ball there.....

OK guys, why do have to be so funny when I have to go to lunch, lunch.....lunch...nnnn....LOL

andi01
03 Sep 2008 05:12

@ jadaPinkett- uwathanda kabi amadoda"...Point of correction Andio1 (uyithanda kabi indoda) don't u think this sound better- Ma bad child

We were born free but we forever in chains
Cudnt get to the safe coz it was in chains
Even so, I spent a night in a cell in chains
There's nothing I hate more than the chains
Seems like I am addicted to them chains

I wanted that money to be free from the chains
You call them poverty, sickness, I call it chains
Yes coz the tie the soul and can destroy it.
They are like drugs dangerous and addictive
Amatyathanga, Amatsheyna, no matter how u call
then, they still remain the chains
remain the chains
the chains
chainnnnnn-zzzzzzzzzzzzzaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Nonny
03 Sep 2008 05:14

OK guys, stop making me laugh so much, before I lose my......
JOB
JOB
OB
B.......

Nonny
03 Sep 2008 05:17

then, they still remain the chains
remain the chains
the chains
chainnnnnn-zzzzzzzzzzzzzaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
This is so deep..........deep............deep....

andi01
03 Sep 2008 05:19

@Nonny-did Mzwakhe really say this or are u just entertaining us? - of course not , I am such a fan, I can even read his mind, seems like I aint the only one (read Carino's replies)

andi01
03 Sep 2008 05:21

@ Nonny-This is so deep..........deep............deep....-One of my hidden talents is that I am a poet
poet
oet
et
t

andi01
03 Sep 2008 05:24

Nonny
03 Sep 2008 05:25

One of my hidden talents is that I am a poet
Andi01, this talent of urts is no longer
hidden
hidden
dennnnn
I am telling mfethu, u are
gifted
gifted
tedddddd

carino
03 Sep 2008 05:28

I wanted that money to be free from the chains
You call them poverty, sickness, I call it chains
Yes coz the tie the soul and can destroy it.

THis is quite deep, hey...

belz
03 Sep 2008 05:30

andi01 are you sure you a not mzwakhe's relative:

elative
lative
ative
tive
ive
ve
e

Nonny
03 Sep 2008 05:34

andi01 are you sure you a not mzwakhe's relative
@ Belz, I am convinced that Andi01 is Mzwakhe himself.......himself........selfff ffff....

JadaPinkett
03 Sep 2008 05:34

Sometimes guyz you can make the person laugh while she doesn't want to any see you later
Ngisayodla
gisayodla
isayodla
sayodla
ayodla
yodla
odla
dla
la
a
.....Ha ha ha...Cheers!!!!!!!

Pooky
03 Sep 2008 05:38

hehehehe
hehehe
hehe
he
h
e

Nonny
03 Sep 2008 05:42

LMAO @ Pooky's poetic laugh
hahhaha
hhaha
haha
ha

andi01
03 Sep 2008 05:45

@Belz-andi01 are you sure you a not mzwakhe's relative- No my sweetheart, i am just as poetic as he is. Also people like you bring out the creativity in me. i will post one poem from my (love) LOL collection.

@Nonny-@ Belz, I am convinced that Andi01 is Mzwakhe himself.......himself........selfff ffff

Ngiyezwa bekhuluma ngami
Behemzela ngoba bayangesaba
Mina ngizoqhushumbisa i AK47 bagijime
Ewe bagijime baxele amahashe emgqatsweni
Ngobavele bakhuluma umsangano
Ophuma kwezongqondo zabo zisangene
Ngempela nje bafisa ukubhema i Dunhill

andi01
03 Sep 2008 05:59