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Too fake to be true!!!

Written by Ziphezinhle from the blog Charlene on 17 Nov 2008
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IS IT POSSIBLE,OR IS SHE JUST BEING A FAKE?

She says she does not have a problem with me and that she loves me, she says men come and go so I should relax.Yet all her friends say that she hates my guts. Ok here is the story, and I didnt know that she was in the picture.

I'm dating this guy only to later find out that it's her man as well.When she finds out about me she decides to come and confront me about it,we talk like to adults about it and she says she doesn't have a problem with me dating "her man".
from that onwards she became my new best friend,buying me lunch,calling me everyday and night.She invited me on mxt and facebook and eveything.

She just seems too good to be true.I dont think I would be that nice to a girl who is dating the guy I am inlove with. I'm not saying that she should have been a bitch and be all up in my face about it,but I mean come on bein al buddy buddy with me nah that is not right at all.

So should I run for my life or should I stay and entertain her?

50 Comments

Toodecent
17 Nov 2008 17:09

Ehehehehehehe..... relationships konje what are they?

dubed out
17 Nov 2008 17:13

I would love to comment on that situation but i cant because its really INTERESTING but all i'll say is that u should watch your back.
Trust few but love many now thats the best advice i can give u.

carino
17 Nov 2008 17:14

Is this another shim triangle...????

Tshd21
17 Nov 2008 17:18

A few questions for clarity please...

Are you and her dating the same guy knowingly???

Or did one of you break up with him??

If so, how did the conversation go and who volunteered to be the dumper??

So you have no problem and you continued to be in a relationship with him...knowing that he was with her the same time he was with you??

Just need these little holes filled up before I give my 2cents-worth view....because I reali don't uinderstand...

Toxic
17 Nov 2008 17:56

who is she????

Beyonce Knowles Bee
17 Nov 2008 18:04

Toxic
17 Nov 2008 18:04

Toxic
17 Nov 2008 18:05

on FB i mean. I want to see her profile and then i'll tell you if you can trust her or not, i'm good with these sorts of things.

Nonny
17 Nov 2008 18:21

LOL @ Tox.

Best-Achiever
18 Nov 2008 08:01

LOL Toxic .... can you answer Tshd21's questions, they we can talk

TheLady
18 Nov 2008 08:06

OMG-ooooooooowiiiiiiiii...come back dear, we got some questions for you.

Krissy
18 Nov 2008 08:09

I dont think I would be that nice to a girl who is dating the guy I am inlove with

@Ziphezinhle-- U just answered ur own questions. I say watch out for this gal!!

TheLady
18 Nov 2008 08:11

BA-ngathi uthi can you answer Tshdi's 21 questions.LOL

Cande
18 Nov 2008 08:14

Its a girl who is a friend with her man's other girlfriend.....

Ever heard of the saying "Keeps you loved one close, and your enemies closer????"

She is playing you

Best-Achiever
18 Nov 2008 08:15

BA-ngathi uthi can you answer Tshdi's 21 questions.LOL

LOL@ Tha Lady....

Blackcherry
18 Nov 2008 08:16

You know the saying: "Keep your friends closer, and your enemies even closer". Ziphezinhle that is a sick relationship, get out of it now. You are being befriended so that you can start feeling some kind of kinship with her and once that happens you are going to feel guilty about the relationship with brother man.

dali
18 Nov 2008 08:16

do u eat the lunch she buys for u?????????? or do you throw it away cause im really scared for you. this chick is on a mission do not fall for dis i repeat do not fall for dis one run for your life..........

Blackcherry
18 Nov 2008 08:16

Keep your friends close, and your enemies even closer

Best-Achiever
18 Nov 2008 08:17

Its a girl who is a friend with her man's other girlfriend.....

Ever heard of the saying "Keeps you loved one close, and your enemies closer????"

She is playing you

LOL @ Cande .... nna im just suprised, they could be friends and still dating the same guy.... if it is was me, i'd be long gone, crying that guy out of my systen.

TheLady
18 Nov 2008 08:22

'Yet all her friends say that she hates my guts."

I think she's a little twisted, and loaded.

PY
18 Nov 2008 08:27

Yet all her friends say that she hates my guts.....
They will never lie to u about it, they are her friend and they are warning u

So should I run for my life or should I stay and entertain her?......
Ziphezinhle run for ur life darling where have u ever heared of that *bleep!*....
A friend of mine was in the same situation as urs....the fake friend said to her lets use this guy & break up with him (at the same time) to show him that the girls are not stupid as guys think...my friend agreed....only to found out later that they are still going out.....one day we(my friends & this fake friend) were walking in this street, we came across with this guy, he came straight to us & called our fake friend, they talked & they leave together.....Few months later....my friend & her fake friend fought like cats & dogs...that was the end of their relationship, we never asked our friend about their fight coz we we never appreciated their friendship from the first place.....so stop that & tell her u dont feel comfortable about ur recent friendship....

felfel
18 Nov 2008 08:28

utshomene no'K' wakho??? (u friends with the other woman??)

Gal please grow up tu, there's no such nonsense......nxa...
Wena how do you sleep at night knowing u "K' wakho has information on u via FB and ur 'friendship'........nxa
How do u even look at that man knowing he's unfaithful with ur so called 'friend'...........nxa
Don't u have friends of ur own ???? nxa............

belz
18 Nov 2008 08:32

LOL Tox!!!

awelani
18 Nov 2008 08:33

Keep your frends close and YOUR ENEMIES CLOSER!!!! gal she'gonna moer the hell out fo you,,run for dear life,,,

LOL @ felfel's neverending "nxa's"

monchooza
18 Nov 2008 08:35

do you know the saying "keep your friends closer and your enemies even closer".......she does not like you she just want to know your every move...so that later she can make her move......you are in DANGER

GoldenSta
18 Nov 2008 08:36

Yes felfel nxa nxa nxa...LOL
Mna I think you already have your answer sisi even you say "Too fake to be true"

belz
18 Nov 2008 08:43

LOL!!!! nxa!!!!

Cande
18 Nov 2008 08:44

She will always be 1 step ahead of you, leave her and this guy

thsere
18 Nov 2008 08:58

nxa.........nxa ....nxa run like nxa ntombazana she iz too good to be true. Kona wena what i you stil doing wit dis men nayo mos idlala ngawe . Dont you see ukuthi they boy playing you wena phela sowu yibhola labo. Daz he know ukuthi u guyz are buddyz now ?????????? Hayi ngeke i smel a rat lana!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

goldii
18 Nov 2008 09:07

Do the two of you share the same circle of friends or did you become friends after she found out about you?

How old are you btw ( not your exact age but just need clarification e.g in your twenties or in your teens).

However from the little info that you have provided I would suggest that you walk away from that relationship as it is unhealthy.

My personal point of view is if I found out that my OH was cheating on me , I would walk away ,in this day and age it is dangerous to be in a relationship were one partner is spreading themselves around while you are sitting there tweedling your thumbs.

As for your "fake friend" I bet you she has done this before as he probably is a serial cheater, she is reeling you in like a fish and as soon as you are out of the water she will break you.

Walk away dear for your own sanity, you probably are a bright young lady with your whole life ahead of you, socialise with your own friends , go out have fun, who knows you might meet the right person.

Beyonce Knowles Bee
18 Nov 2008 09:44

Hayi ngeke i smel a rat lana!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!----- thsere you smell a rat i smell impukane mina la!!! girl run for your dear life ubengathi ushiya isithunzi sakho this girl is not safe!!!!

Psss---- but ke mara you know it would be great next time for you when you post an article try and visit back, cause there are some clarification needed here!!! just my suggestion!

But anywhoooooo---- RUUUUUUUUUUUUN!

witty lady
18 Nov 2008 09:56

RUUUN 4 UR LIFE.... She wants to keep a close eye on u.

Tynt!
18 Nov 2008 10:07

LMAO!!!! SHe might even be ur TVSA amigo hun!!!! * nodding my head*

TheLady
18 Nov 2008 10:07

"run like nxa" LMAO

GML
18 Nov 2008 11:30

Leave them both andget your own man. Why would you even continue dating someone you know is cheating on you??????? Unless they want to try convincing you into a 3sum........lol

awelani
18 Nov 2008 11:31

LOL @ TheLady...

@Tynt, u might be right u know, Zinhle, if I were u, i wud start distancing maself from this lady, she is a phsyco case waiting to happen,,,,,,run like nxa for real,,soon she will be inviting u for sleep-overs, who know what she will do in ur sleep,,,,lol

witty lady
18 Nov 2008 11:39

This is so scary....sista woman is probably controlling my sista ka voo doo doll.... BE MY FRIEND....yes mam....EAT MY FOOD....yes mam.....SLEEP OVER MY PLACE.....yes oh wise one...hmmmm u can never be too sure.

Galfriend maybe u are in some sort of a trans......... careful

TheLady
18 Nov 2008 11:44

LOL @ witty lady-yes man

TheLady
18 Nov 2008 11:44

mam that is

thsere
18 Nov 2008 11:49

BE MY FRIEND....yes mam....EAT MY FOOD....yes mam.....SLEEP OVER MY PLACE.....yes oh wise one...hmmmm u can never be too sure.
@ Wetty lady lol, undigqibile !!!! hahahhahahah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

faraimagic
18 Nov 2008 11:50

The same reason I dont date.........My heart is faint! dont want it to be broken into smaller nyana pieces!

myname
18 Nov 2008 11:54

Nna i smell BULOYI. Girl run while u stil have 2 feet as Mandoza said 2 twins.....Standwa sam ive been there & i ran though it was not easy maar i made it doll so BALEKA (in Ringo's voice)....Kubi ngaphandle standwa sam so u need 2 luk after urself

myname
18 Nov 2008 11:57

LOL Farai for being fragile

awelani
18 Nov 2008 14:06

Myname, please share ur experience, maybe Zinhle can learn something from it, the warning signs might help too, so what happened,,lol

Farai, now dont come up with excuses just bcoz usaba abafazi,,lol

Thozi
18 Nov 2008 14:27

LOL @ felfel's neverending "nxa's".....
m afraid am also in a simillar situation us yours gal it just creeps the hell outta ma head,feels just lke Disturbia! but in ma case she is the ex and now they are just frends. (or so they tell me) . iv neva met her fascialy, only on mxit. she's seen ma photo from the boyfrnd's. and he doesn't knw we comunicate.im totaly not comfortable but in some creepy way it feels interesting,

suzzy82
18 Nov 2008 14:30

he he he some women kodwa they think they r too clever, GAL RUN 4UR LIFE BEFORE SHE TURN U TO A ZOMBIE uyawulicula elandincamisayo

Msoe
18 Nov 2008 14:41

This face she is pulling up is ALL FAKE. The thing you need to know about us woman is that we always have umona with the 'other woman'. whether she is an X or not. Do you notice how odd you feel when you see a woman that your man once dated before? Or when you see your X with another woman? You automatically feel jealous whether you still fill something for that guy or not.

PY
18 Nov 2008 14:57

Girl....Do u watch Generations?......if yes look at what Bridget did to Khetiwe....I dont want to go further....

faraimagic
18 Nov 2008 17:46

Awelani well its not an excuse...I gat Game!just dont wana play it with someone who aint serious!...Im so down to earth and old fashioned!Im real !

babetm
05 Dec 2008 16:19

some people can go extra miles just for a man or woman and a human being as capable of anything

That girl has a hidden agenda and if u want to find out continue to be friends. my advice to u is dont offer your life to sacrifice for someone who would not do the same for u. only jesus died for us but to be honest i will not die for anybody except my mom who suffered those months cause of me.

dump that bustard and go on with ur life, there are so many fish in the sea.

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