Hello people of TVSA
I was reading one of the comments made by you people and I thought of something worth debating about. WHY ARE INLWAS AND MAKOTI never seem to get along? Who is at fault here?
I am sure that most of the SA population will agree with me when I say that as soon as UBHUTI ties the knot things change. What may be the reason behind this? Is it because that BHUTI is now focusing on this new lady and no longer buying us things as he used to?What really causes this conflict that seems to tear families apart?
Is this the case with wealthy families or is this only an issue with poor families? BUt even the bible says, "and a man will marry and leave his mother and father to be with his wife..." If this is the case, why do we always expect so mush from our siblings? And why do we blame the MAKOTI when BHUTI no longer gives us money? HAve we considered that BHUTI has other things that he spends money on that He did not have before he got married? Have we considered that now that he has his onw place, there are bills, groceries and all sort of expenses to pay( WHICH WOULD BE YOUR POCKET MONEY HAD HE NOT BEEN MARRIED)? ARe we just being nasty to ooMAKOTI and SELFISH or they( MAKOTI) are also to blame. Talk to me people because this is a serious issue that tears our families apart.