Mabloggers this is my first time writing a blog – It might not be that… so please don’t shoot to kill
This is something personal but thought I’d share it with you. I’ve been single for some time and recently I meet someone (I thought I have) I asked the brother is he was seeing anyone and he’s was like no am not I’m not longer with the mother of my child. I thought okay, nice he’s single (where has he been??) we had this “friendship” thing going and it was going quite well. After some time he said the three words – I looked at him and smiled (thinking you’re not expecting me to say me too) think he saw them thoughts and he asked me if I loved him….I told him I wasn’t there yet…explained how I enjoy his company and how much I like him…and bla bla bla... he said he understands and we were okay
….One Saturday I phoned him – asked him if he had any plans for the day, he said not I said he could come to my place we could just chill and watch some dvd’s or something…this I wanted to cuddle on the couch coz it was cold and raining that day (please note the “or something”)… He said okay I’ll phone u when am coming – I was like sure…then he never phoned the entire Saturday, thought nam ke I won’t phone him. Sunday, still nothing (I was already pissed off by then) Monday morning I got an email at work from him saying “hey babes, I know I haven’t been a good person this weekend…was very busy. How are you doing” I looked at the email and thought what the hell am I suppose to say now…okay I won’t say anything – replied saying “am alright just hectic with work”
I thought I’d get a call from him after work – you know explaining a bit more about the “busyness” of the weekend at least give me something more to chew…..I got nothing and at 2130 am starring at my phone and thinking – should I phone him or not – then I decided to call him – when I phone people the first thing I ask them is can they talk – did that and he said no I can’t – ndathi okay dropped the phone (thought not to allow my brain to think about what had just happened and it did) Comes the next day – still nothing from him – at 1930 I thinking can’t take this anymore WTF?? I phoned him – I said what the heck is going on, just be straight with me…tell me if you don’t want this anymore “oh no its not that I was very busy, are you angry?” I said what were you so busy with that you didn’t even have 2 min to call me… “the mother of my child just rocked up at my place with the child” – after a few seconds of silence I said WHAT?? What mother of your child? “the one I told you about” – I said “the one you told me about? Are you mad – what did you tell me about her? Did you said you were not together? “I did but the nature of our relationship is that she comes to my place when ever she feels like coming” I’m thinking this is unbelievable and am not talking about this anymore – I said okay bye – dropped the phone – went to my one of my galfriend’s place and told her esi-sifirifiri…
From right then I decided that I want nothing to do with this guy…the ff day – he sent me an sms saying “you’re still pissed off” deleted the stupid sms right then – logged in on facebook, the guy’s status is “have you ever messed up that you don’t even know when to start apologising” am thinking oh my word I wished I wasn’t friends with this guy on face book….Weeks went by with no contacts or anything then early this morning I saw missed calls from him and when I was leaving I saw his footpaths in front of my door and on the side of the bedroom window (meaning he was knocking on the window) I don’t have a lockable gate so he parked then went in. I’m thinking what the hell was he doing there at 0120 in the morning - I phoned him, asked him what was he doing at my place at that time and he denied that he was there…I didn’t even argued that and I just said why do you have to lie and dropped the phone. Mabblogers why do people besenza isinto ezinje – what the hell is going on with him…There are people who are good at these things and there are those who’re just pathetic – I just hate a stupid liar who thinks he/she’s very smart at it…. So ma-bloggers tell me what doyou think of this crazy ass dude…
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