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types of husby and wifey

Written by ayashah from the blog ylcm on 11 Oct 2012
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TYPES OF HUSBAND THEIR CHARACTER TRAITS

1 Bachelor Husband This are men who
• Love to do things on their own without consulting their wives
• Love to hang a lot with their friends rather than their wife.
• Not very serious with married life
2 Acidic Husband This are men who
• Are always boiling like acid
• Are always angry
• Are violent
• Moody and dominating
• They are very dangerous
3 Slave Husband This are men who
• Feel and want to be treated like kings
• Treat the wife like their slave
• Love their wife to be performing old tradition respect gesture to them
• Don’t like to be called by their first name
4 General Husband This are men who
• Are husband for every woman
• They love and care for other women a lot than their own
• Even though not in relationship they like giving money to different women but not to their wife
• They have more female friends
5 Dry Husband This are men who
• Are very moody
• Are very stingy
• They don’t consider the wife’s emotions
• They don’t like putting energy in the relationship to make it enjoyable
• They don’t have any sense of humour


6 Panado Husband This are men who
• Uses their wife as a problem solver
• Love their wife when they need something from her and after that she is useless to them
• Are very clever and knows their wife weakness and capitalize on them to get relief from their wife
7 Parasite Husband This are men who
• Are lazy and don’t love to work so they stuck to their wife because of wife’s money
• Are very loving but uses wife money and resources to cheat her with their girlfriends
• Are not initiative and they don’t even try to help their with house responsibilities
8 Baby Husband This are men who
• They are very irresponsible and childish
• Can not make decision own their own without asking their mothers or relatives
• When something is wrong they rush back to their parent instead of discussing it with their wife
• Wants their wife to care for them as the way their mother did
• Who always compare their wife with their mother
9 Visiting Husband This are men who
• Are not always at home but usually at work
• They come home like they are visiting or like their home is lodge
• Try hard to provide the material needs of their wife and family but they have no time for them.






TYPES OF WIFE THEIR CHARACTER TRAITS
1 Party Wife This are women who
• Are very mobile and very sociable
• They are always attending one function after the other (every wedding, bridal and shower, kitchen top up, office functions etc)
• Are barely at home on weekends to have time with their husbands and family
• Can spend family food money on gifts
2 Dictionary Wife This are women who
• Don’t take suggestions: the way she thinks is the way it is
• They way she knows is the way it is be maintained – no changes
• Very orderly and became very angry when things are misplaced in their home set-up
3 Pampered Wife This are women who
• Very spoiled by their parents (normally from rich parents or their the only girl in the family of many boys)
• They are lazy mainly to do household work
• Love spending money shopping trivial girlish things
• Sees their husband like a houseboy
4 Office Wife This are women who
• Career minded that their family does not matter
• Are always using career as an excuse of not being at home for their family
• They don’t respect their husbands and makes educated women look bad
• Think a husband is not important because they can support themselves
5 Patient Wife This are women who
• Always look like they are sick and down trodden
• Love to complain on everything (husband, children, relatives even weather)
• Are always afraid and live in anxiety
6 Headmistress Wife This are women who
• Make themselves in-charge of the family even when the husband is a sole provider of the home
• Treat everyone as a child including their husband and visitors
• Are very questionable and will punish their husbands for any trivial things


7 Boxing Wife This are women who
• Are very offensive and sometimes can be violent
• They like shouting and they are nagging
• Believe in fire for fire
8 Dust bin Wife This are women who
• They are very dirt and unkempt
• Very unorganized and confused
• Very lazy at everything expect gossiping
• Leaves everything to their servants or their children
9 Security Wife This are women who
• Very protective of their husband
• Very jealous, every woman seen as a threat
• Sees husbands friends as bad company
• Don’t let anyone discipline their child even a teacher
• Husband family and friends and workmate are scared of her



now  lets discuss which husband will you sacrifice to stay with,or which wife will you sacrifece to stay with??




40 Comments

ayashah
11 Oct 2012 09:41

let me think i will tell you

Friend
11 Oct 2012 10:06

Baby Husband, will try 2 discipline him like my child, tell him that he is not married to his mother coz i give him what his mother cannot (in-bed). If mom-inlaw takes his side,  will be all smiles & work very hard at her funeral as 1 problem will be gone. His bank card, credit will always be in my purse, he will have to ask for his money from me after having explained what he wants to do with it, will have to bring receipts. Ask for permission to borrow his mom, sis some money. Will take him for shopping twice a year, but will do mine every month.  he only becomes a hubby in bed & my baby thereafter until such he is old enough to make decisions on his own.

Mrs Chix
11 Oct 2012 10:14

All I can say is marriage is tough and hard work.

Mavourna
11 Oct 2012 10:18

a Baby husband will b fyn for me but he will not hav dat tym 2 compare me wth his mother nd i am proud of the fact dat i am a Dictionary Wifey.

Friend
11 Oct 2012 10:29

Dictionary wifey, way to go. I hate it when the house is messy, especially the kitchen & bedroom.

ayashah
11 Oct 2012 10:52

he only becomes a hubby in bed & my baby thereafter until such he is old enough to make decisions on his own.  lol kikiikikiikiiikikiiki

steffie
11 Oct 2012 11:01

All these categories are bad but I can opt for visiting husband  cause I don't want my man always breathing down my neck. 
Sometimes i just need some me, myself and I time you know.

As for wifey Office will do for me shame although I would want to be there for my family but not hoping to be a super wifey and mum.

Kandyfloss
11 Oct 2012 11:17

Tjo tjo Friemd you are something else.

Friend
11 Oct 2012 11:29

@Kandy don' b surprised, kalok he is a BABY & babies can't think or do 99% of things without supervision.

ayashah
11 Oct 2012 11:47

khidik lol

ayashah
11 Oct 2012 11:51

mna i dnt know whih one to choose yooo they are all baad news

myname
11 Oct 2012 12:16

NONE. I can't sacrifice for any of the above. 

 Dictionary wifey, way to go. I hate it when the house is messy, especially the kitchen & bedroom. 
Me too Chomi. A friend of mine calls me a clean freak but im not ALWAYS clean but i cant stand ubumdaka.

myname
11 Oct 2012 12:21

I've dated a guy who was a combination of a Slave & Dry Husband.

I dont miss him noba sendidlala igalufa.

sisila
11 Oct 2012 12:24

As a proud Dictionary wife I'll go for number9. Visiting Husband I hate a man who is always around to give me orders so this one will just make sure money is there for me to rule as I wish.

ayashah
11 Oct 2012 12:34

I dont miss him noba sendidlala igalufa. lol wandi bulaya wehu!!


Visiting Husband I hate a man who is always around to give me orders so this one will just make sure money is there for me to rule as I wish.
@sisila and all who wnt a visiting husband, gape your husby will come home as his going t a lounge so uou are telling me that you dnt mind iyoo i put my hat down for you then

nna i wa't my husband to be always with me wherever he is he better start to party because when he marries me NO time for that e-e-e

Kandyfloss
11 Oct 2012 13:12

Ayasha you hectic girl. Wanting your man to be Always there shuuu! I won't choose any from the above, even at gun point.

Kandyfloss
11 Oct 2012 13:18

A visiting husband can do if he is very wealthy and you are a Parasite wife.. I wont take chances least cobwebs leave me bedridden

ayashah
11 Oct 2012 14:13

yes kandyfloss when i watch dishes he must be there cooking watching generations together imao then we pray evn play with kids together b4 we sleep imao

so a visiting wnt do for me,kandyfloss uzo bulaya hi ndlla kikiki 

sisila
11 Oct 2012 14:23

I am a busy lady( work commitment) i dont spend much time at home so a man who is forever in the house will definately make me leave my job so that i can be home with him. I love my job I dont see myself as a house wife. I clean,cook but can't do it  24/7 i loose my mind.

Friend
11 Oct 2012 14:32

Tjo, for me a visiting hubby is a No!No!. Aya, you shall never walk alone, he must be home with us, helping the kids with school work while i'm busy cooking. I can't imagine doing all the house chores after having had a long bad day at the office. He can go out evry weekend (with the kids ofcourse) & not come home i won't mind.

ayashah
11 Oct 2012 14:45

i agree with you friend a visiting hubby nop, kids also take side you will find them having a bond with me when they see their dad will as if thet are seeing a stranger e-e nna ii wnt to enjoy my marriage to the fullest after death ther's no such thats why when we marry we say unti deat set us apart

suzzy82
11 Oct 2012 21:09

lol ....i'm laughing at hubby 5 lol ...lol...thatha ayashah 
Baby husband: vele any married woman knows a hubby turns to be ur baby of course he play his role as father and a hubby

NomthyM
11 Oct 2012 22:49

Im a dictionary wife .... I dated a guy for 4 years and he matches hubby no. 4 and 5. It ended in a disaster, we were a compatible match in th beggining but from year 2 nd half to year 4, things were horrible. In my entire life, I'd never meant such a self centered, cheater, liar and wait for it ...... DRY PIG. He never gave me cash, if I needed something, I had to explain to him why I needed it and he would go with me to pay for it.

tshepiso
12 Oct 2012 09:03

I prefer a Bachelor hubby since Im a Boxing wife (ga ke tseye nonsense)

ayashah
12 Oct 2012 09:21

dead by your commets,kikik gani where are men batle bari jwetsa gore bona ba gopana le eng??? 

MsKim
12 Oct 2012 11:17

1 Bachelor Husband This are men who
• Love to do things on their own without consulting their wives
• Love to hang a lot with their friends rather than their wife.
• Not very serious with married life 

 5 Dry Husband This are men who
• Are very stingy
• They don’t consider the wife’s emotions
• They don’t like putting energy in the relationship to make it enjoyable
• They don’t have any sense of humour 

9 Visiting Husband This are men who
• Are not always at home but usually at work
• They come home like they are visiting or like their home is lodge
• Try hard to provide the material needs of their wife and family but they have no time for them. 

this is my hubby.

ayashah
12 Oct 2012 11:53

this is my hubby.  yoooo are you coping ms skim??

MsKim
12 Oct 2012 13:32

took me a while to get used to. the days he decides to be home, it somehw feels awkward, to go out i have to force him and wen we get to go i realise we really do not enjoy eachother's company anymo... so he does his business n i do mine. all we do is sleep together. no phone calls/ messages unless its something serious that has to do with kids. Otherwise thats my marriage.

tried mending but hey it takes 2 as a result we've grown apart. and i've sorta accepted it.

sisila
12 Oct 2012 14:02

@ MsKim i get you I think one fights until you see that fighting doesn't change anyything then you somehow find peace in the midst of it all just to keep your stress level down. I told myself Im good for my family alive that dead bcos of stress.

Friend
12 Oct 2012 14:17

@MsKim, i hear you, you can only get into the ring with someone who is willing. It takes two to tango, you must ask  him why he marrried you? was it out of love or for convinience sake? just hang in there i guess things will change for the best, in meantime, have fun, respect him.

MsKim
12 Oct 2012 15:30

@sisila very true hey its not even worth it. @Friend i am now comfortable with the way things are. i don't think i'd want to go back anymo it took me a while to get to were i am today. having to go thru all the whys, weres, whens, hwz..... no ways.

ayashah
15 Oct 2012 09:51

sorry to hear that  Ms kim, but i love the fact that you are now comfortable to your situation as you said you know sometiimes God prepare you to leave within the situation 

Green.arrow
15 Oct 2012 10:14

Askiesi MsKim. Marriage is no smooth ride it seems.eish.

Kandyfloss
15 Oct 2012 10:20

Is it not wise for ms kim to separate or divorce. Asking everyone in the house?? Morning people...

steffie
15 Oct 2012 10:26

@Kandyfloss If there are kids involved it is not easy to walk away. But depends on the type of person you are.

Kandyfloss
15 Oct 2012 10:47

Ok@steffie, whats wron with both parties explaing themselves to their kids and separate. I mean kids will still be affected either way.

ayashah
15 Oct 2012 10:53

@kandyfloss i personally think it is wise to separate/dvrs but since she's saying she is use to this situation...but am bleeding from inside i feel sorry for her serious!!

Kerrie
15 Oct 2012 10:58

none of the above husbands for me, don't have the patience!  baby husband.will drive me insane...

you right Kandyfloss, kids are affected either way, when they sense that all is not well between their parents, it might affect them negatively...just sit your kids down and explain to them what's going on and take them for counseling...slowly but surely the'll come to terms with what's happening!

Mafresh
24 Oct 2012 23:45

@ Kerrie, it's easier said than done. I guess one choose to be in a situation that is better than the other, in this case maybe it's better not to divorce. Divorces can be very costly, emotionally and financially, especially when people are married in CoP. 

Kandyfloss
25 Oct 2012 07:43

maybe you are right MaFresh its easier said than done. But some situations are worse than cancer... Itjo!


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